Parenting
Parent Traps
Anger
Rage
Controlling
Rescuing
Criticizing
Arguing
Inconsistence
Lying
Insight (Lecturing)
Teenage Retirement (not learning, not earning)
 Parental Disunity
 Conditional Love
 Scapegoating..placing wrongful blame on child
Surrogate Spouse
Holding Grudges
 Favoritism
 Using Excessive Punishment
 Nagging
 Bait Phrases
 The Quick Fix
 Not Using Rewards and Punishments Properly
 
Correct Principles
Unconditional Love
Free Choice
Accountability
Consequences
Pleasure/Pain
Work
Contracts
Family Government
Obedience
Individual Value
 Unconditional Acceptance
 Human Needs
 Five Parental Responsibilities
Communication
I Message
You Messages
Listen